Sade Perkins: Heartless, Hypocritical—And in My Personal Opinion, Straight-Up Evil

Let me get this off my chest right now... Sade Perkins is not misunderstood. She is not brave. She is not a truth-teller, in my personal opinion. She is—based on her own words, behavior, and refusal to take accountability—cruel, calculated, and in my opinion… evil.

And trust me, I don’t use that word lightly.

Now ya'll know we don’t just react—we reflect. We dissect. And when someone goes on the internet and uses a tragic event involving children as a soapbox for personal clout and fake activism, they deserve to be called out LOUDLY. So let’s get into it.

The Criminal Past They Don't Want You to Know

Let’s talk receipts. Word on the internet streets is that Sade Perkins is on probation and has a criminal history that includes assault charges. Reports allege that she’s currently facing legal issues stemming from violent behavior. While the official documents haven’t surfaced publicly yet, trusted sources in the online community and commentary pages have made strong claims about it—and it checks out with how unhinged she acts.

Listen, everyone deserves a second chance. But you don’t get to be out here wildin’ on social media or PERIOD for that matter, like you’re morally superior when you’ve allegedly been out here swinging on people. That part.

Married to a White Pastor… But Spewing Division and Hate?

Oh, the irony. Sade is married to Rev. Colin Bossen, a white Unitarian Universalist minister in Houston. The same woman preaching Black power and anti-white rhetoric is laying next to a white man every night—a man whose church was forced to publicly distance itself from her after her hateful video went viral.

The church, y’all. THE CHURCH. They released a statement making it very clear that Sade was not a spokesperson for their beliefs and that her actions did not reflect their values. If the man of God you share a home with has to issue an apology on your behalf, sis… it’s bad.

The disconnect between what she preaches and what she practices is astounding. If you’re going to come for people in the name of justice, at least be consistent. Because right now, it looks a whole lot like performative outrage masked as activism.

The Camp Mystic Comments That Sparked a Firestorm

On July 5–6, 2025, Texas was in mourning. Historic floods claimed the lives of over two dozen people, including multiple children at Camp Mystic, a private Christian girls' camp.

While families were still searching for loved ones, still praying, still crying—Sade opened her mouth and went on TikTok to say THIS:

“It’s all white. No Asian. No Black. If you ain’t white, you ain’t right. Period.”

Then she doubled down:

“If this was a camp of Hispanic or immigrant kids, would y’all be crying? No. But let some white girls drown in Hill Country…”

Y’all. I was disgusted.

It wasn’t what she said—it was how and when she said it. There is a time and place for critical conversations about race and privilege. A national tragedy is NOT that time. These are PEOPLE...HUMANS... INNOCENT SOULS...SO many CHILDREN!

No Compassion, No Apology, No Accountability

Instead of apologizing or even clarifying her intent, Sade doubled down. She deleted her video, then blamed “white tears,” the mayor, and even ICE detention centers for the backlash.

The result?

• She was removed from Houston’s Food Insecurity Advisory Board.

• Mayor John Whitmire publicly condemned her, saying she would never again serve in any city leadership role.

• Her husband’s church had to clean up her mess and apologize to the public.

• Parents of the deceased children were retraumatized, and some had never even heard of Camp Mystic until this moment.

And still—no accountability. No grace. No empathy.

The Public Dragged Her—and Rightfully So

Social media lit up like a wildfire. People across all communities—Black, white, Latino, conservative, progressive—were furious. Not just at what she said, but at how dismissive and self-righteous she was about it.

Comment sections were flooded:

“You don’t get to use grieving children to make your point. This is evil masquerading as activism. “Sade Perkins just set back every real conversation about racial inequality.”

And honestly? They’re right.

She hijacked a moment of collective grief to center herself, stir up rage, and then hide when the consequences hit. She tried to turn trauma into trending. That’s not activism. That’s narcissism.

Why This Matters on a Bigger Scale

Here’s what gets lost in the noise: when people like Sade act out in these harmful ways and then hide behind social justice language, it damages the real work.

It makes people more skeptical of actual activists doing hard, meaningful, community-based work. It distracts from the real issue—systemic inequality—by turning the spotlight into a circus.

And in this case? It caused even more pain to families who were already broken.

Let’s call it what it is: Sade Perkins was not brave. She was not honest. She was not helpful.

She was cold, heartless, and in my personal opinion, a dangerous example of what happens when ego and agenda collide.

And I don’t care how controversial this blog post is—someone needs to say it.

What Do You Think?

Drop a comment below and let’s have the real conversation, right here on Shalena Speaks.

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