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Strategies for Mental Health Wellness
I know you may not want to hear this, but maintaining mental health balance is more crucial than ever. The demands of everyday life can take a toll on our well-being, causing stress, anxiety, and even depression. Check out these effective strategies to enhance your mental health, ensuring that you lead a balanced, fulfilling life.
Shalena
Jul 27, 20254 min read


The Truth About Fibromyalgia – Part 3: Trauma, Triggers, and a 7-Day Reset to Help You Regain Control
We’ve talked about the symptoms. We’ve talked about the pain, the gaslighting, and the cost. Now, it’s time to talk about something they almost never bring up in doctor’s offices or pamphlets:
The connection between trauma and fibromyalgia.
Because for a lot of us, fibromyalgia didn’t just show up out of nowhere. It came after something. After a major loss. After years of unprocessed stress. After abuse. After pushing past your limit for so long, your body finally said, E
Shalena
Jul 25, 20254 min read


The Truth About Fibromyalgia – Part 2: The Cost, the Gaslighting, and the Healing Path Forward
In Part 1, we covered the basics: what fibromyalgia is, how many people it affects, new treatments in 2025, and natural remedies that actually help. But if you’ve been living with this condition—or watching someone you love suffer through it , you know there’s a lot more to the story.
Because fibromyalgia isn’t just a diagnosis. It’s a life disruption.
It messes with your money, your mental health, your sense of self, and sometimes your belief in the entire healthcare sys
Shalena
Jul 25, 20255 min read


The Truth About Fibromyalgia: What They Don’t Tell You—but We’re Talking About It Now
Let’s be real—fibromyalgia is one of those silent battles a lot of people fight, but barely anybody talks about. The pain, the fatigue, the brain fog, the judgment from others who say, “But you don’t look sick.” Sis, let’s talk about it—loudly, clearly, and with facts.
Whether you’ve been diagnosed, you’re still trying to figure out what’s going on with your body, or you're watching someone you love go through it—this post is for you. We're unpacking what fibromyalgia really
Shalena
Jul 25, 20255 min read


The Mindful Reset: Why Everyone’s Talking About Meditation (and Why You Should Be, Too)
Let’s be real—life moves fast. Between endless scrolling, non-stop notifications, and the mental gymnastics of juggling work, family, and dr
Shalena
Jul 22, 20252 min read


Living with Lupus in 2025-Medical Breakthroughs + Natural Remedies
When you’re diagnosed with lupus, it feels like your body betrays you. One day you’re pushing through a little fatigue. The next, you’re staring down inflammation, brain fog, hair loss, aching joints, and a flurry of doctors unsure which symptom to chase first.
That’s the reality for millions—and in 2025, while lupus is still deeply misunderstood by the public, something incredible is happening in both the medical world and holistic wellness. There’s new hope.
This isn’t ju
Shalena
Jul 16, 20257 min read


Redefining Wellness: From Perfection to Feel-Good Habits
For years, wellness was tied to appearances: sculpted abs, spotless skin, glowing green juices in filtered light. But in 2025, the script is flipping. The new wellness isn’t about perfection. It’s about feeling good—mentally, physically, and emotionally.
And here’s the thing: it’s not just a vibe—it’s a measurable shift.
Today, people are waking up to a new truth: real wellness isn’t about how you look. It’s about how you feel—mentally, physically, emotionally, and energe
Shalena
Jul 10, 20253 min read


Perimenopause: The Shift No One Warned Us About (But We’re Talking About It Now)
Let’s get something straight! Perimenopause is not a whisper... It doesn’t knock politely. It barges in—sometimes slow, sometimes all at once—and flips the table on everything you thought you knew about your body, your moods, your sleep, your skin, your sex life. And most of us? We’re blindsided.
Shalena
Jul 9, 20254 min read


BBL or Bust: The Controversial Cosmetic Surgery Claims
With the growing influence of social media and celebrity culture, the allure of a perfectly sculpted body has never been more pronounced. Fi
Shalena
Feb 22, 20255 min read


Prioritizing Mental Health: The Key to Thriving in Life & Business
Mental health is often overlooked in the pursuit of success, financial stability, and personal growth. We’re told to push through, hustle ha
Shalena
Feb 21, 20253 min read


How Black Professionals Can Prevent Burnout
Burnout is a growing issue among professionals, but for Black professionals, the pressure can be even greater. Many of us carry the weight o
Shalena
Feb 18, 20253 min read


Why Mental Health Matters: The Impact on Friendships, Employment, and Overall Well-being
Mental health is a fundamental aspect of our overall well-being, influencing how we think, feel, and act. It affects our ability to...
Shalena
Dec 22, 20244 min read


The Dark Side of Antidepressants: A Deeper Look into Their Hidden Challenges
Antidepressants have long been hailed as a lifeline for millions battling depression, anxiety, and other mood disorders. These medications,
Shalena
Dec 20, 20243 min read


How Our Mental Health System Is Broken: An Urgent Call for Change
The mental health system is a cornerstone of a healthy, functioning society. However, in many countries, including the United States, it is
Shalena
Dec 18, 20245 min read


Understanding Self-Worth, Forgiveness, and Mental Health
In the world we live in nowadays, we find ourselves in a remarkably interconnected environment, where the threads of communication, technolo
Shalena
Dec 17, 20245 min read


Mental Health Awareness: Strategies for Managing Stress, Anxiety, and Depression During the Holiday Season
The holiday season is often marketed as the “happiest time of the year,” a time filled with joy, connection, and celebration. However, for m
Shalena
Dec 16, 20244 min read


The Dark Side of Lexapro
Lexapro (escitalopram) is one of the most commonly prescribed antidepressants, known for its effectiveness in treating depression and anxiet
Shalena
Dec 10, 20243 min read


The High Cost of Healthcare in America: A Comprehensive Look
Healthcare in the United States is both a source of innovation and a significant financial burden for millions of Americans. While the count
Shalena
Dec 10, 20243 min read


10 Simple Habits to Improve Mental Wellness Daily
Mental wellness is a cornerstone of a balanced and fulfilling life. Small, intentional actions practiced consistently can have a profound i
Shalena
Dec 6, 20242 min read


Life in Your 40s: A Decade of Growth, Reflection, and Renewal
Your 40s often mark a pivotal point in life. It’s a decade where many people find themselves balancing a mix of reflection on past experienc
Shalena
Nov 29, 20243 min read
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