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The Martha Stewart Aesthetic Is Back — And Everyone’s Ready for a Softer, Slower Life
Take a scroll through Pinterest or TikTok lately, and you’ll notice something interesting. People aren’t just posting vacation photos or designer handbags — they’re sharing homemade jam, backyard gardens, cozy porch setups, and early-morning rituals that look more like something out of a countryside retreat than a busy weekday.
The world is falling headfirst into a lifestyle shift, and it’s called the Martha Stewart aesthetic.
But this isn’t just about picture-perfect kitch
Shalena
Jul 104 min read


The Rise of Quiet Luxury: Why Less Is More in the New Era of Jewelry
Okay, so let’s set the scene.
You walk into a room. You're not covered in diamonds. There's no oversized logo dangling from your neck. No flashy, oversized earrings competing for attention. But somehow, the energy shifts. People notice you — not because you're loud, but because you're elegant.
You’re wearing a clean, gold chain. A pair of delicate hoops. Maybe a timeless watch. It’s understated, intentional, and powerful.
This is the energy of quiet luxury — and it’s takin
Shalena
Jul 104 min read


Finding the Right Mental Health Resources
With increasing awareness surrounding mental wellness, the demand for reliable and comprehensive support resources has significantly...
Shalena
Jul 104 min read


Justice Awaits: Trial Date Set in Frisco Track Meet Murder Case
In a case that has gripped Texas and sparked conversations nationwide about youth violence, justice, and accountability, a trial date has officially been set in the tragic stabbing of 17-year-old Austin Metcalf. The young man lost his life during a Frisco ISD track meet—an event meant to showcase school pride and athleticism. Now, over a year later, the case against 18-year-old Karmelo Anthony is moving forward.
Shalena
Jul 93 min read


Texas Flood 2025-A Tragedy That Touched Us All
There are moments when time seems to stand still. When the world watches in shared horror, heartbreak, and helplessness. The devastating floods that struck Central Texas over the July 4th holiday weekend in 2025 was one of those moments. But through the tears, one truth emerged: love—fierce, selfless, and enduring—carried us.
This isn’t just about disaster. It’s about humanity. It’s about the faces behind the headlines. It’s about how we hold each other when the storm come
Shalena
Jul 94 min read


A $100,000 salary in 2020 equals about $124,353 in 2025 in terms of purchasing power.
You may have seen this claim online
“A $100,000 salary in January 2020 has the same buying power as $124,353 in April 2025.”
It sounds dramatic. But is it true? And what does it actually mean for your finances?
Let’s break it down using data from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS).
Shalena
Jul 92 min read


The Tragic Turn in Whitney Purvis’ Life: From 16 and Pregnant to Legal and Personal Struggles
Once a familiar face on MTV’s 16 and Pregnant, Whitney Purvis is now making headlines for far more troubling reasons. Once known for her candid portrayal of teen motherhood, her life has since spiraled into a storm of legal drama, substance use issues, and mental health crises that have left many fans stunned.
The latest developments paint a dark picture of a woman who once symbolized youthful resilience—now facing felony charges and fighting for her life behind bars.
Shalena
Jul 93 min read


Karrine Steffans and Diddy-A Lawsuit on the Horizon?
Let’s talk about it. Once again, the hip-hop world is holding its breath, and this time, all eyes are on Karrine Steffans, aka Superhead, now going by her legal name, Elisabeth Ovesen.
Why?
Because social media is buzzing with whispers that she may be getting ready to file a lawsuit against none other than Sean “Diddy” Combs.
Shalena
Jul 94 min read


YouTube Is Shaking the Table July 15 — And If You're an AI-Only Creator, You’re About to Get Cut Off
Let me say this loud for the people in the back: YouTube is not playing with y’all anymore.
Starting July 15, if your videos are fully AI-generated, copy-pasted, or just plain lazy, you can go ahead and kiss your monetization check goodbye. YouTube is rolling out some serious changes to its Partner Program, and this affects all of us — creators, businesses, side hustlers, and especially those faceless channels with text-to-speech and copycat content.
As a blogger and YouTub
Shalena
Jul 93 min read


Sade Perkins: Heartless, Hypocritical—And in My Personal Opinion, Straight-Up Evil
Let me get this off my chest right now... Sade Perkins is not misunderstood. She is not brave. She is not a truth-teller, in my personal opinion. She is—based on her own words, behavior, and refusal to take accountability—cruel, calculated, and in my opinion… evil.
And trust me, I don’t use that word lightly.
Now ya'll know we don’t just react—we reflect. We dissect. And when someone goes on the internet and uses a tragic event involving children as a soapbox for persona
Shalena
Jul 94 min read


Nicki Minaj vs. The Industry
Let’s get one thing straight—this wasn’t a meltdown. This was Nicki Minaj stand
Let’s get one thing straight—this wasn’t a meltdown.This was Nicki Minaj standing up for herself, her name, her legacy, and her truth.
While some folks were quick to label her July 2025 X spree as “drama,” what really went down was a fearless takedown of the shady politics in the music industry. And on Shalena Speaks, we’re breaking it ALL down—because when Nicki speaks, she’s not just ranting
Shalena
Jul 93 min read


Perimenopause: The Shift No One Warned Us About (But We’re Talking About It Now)
Let’s get something straight! Perimenopause is not a whisper... It doesn’t knock politely. It barges in—sometimes slow, sometimes all at once—and flips the table on everything you thought you knew about your body, your moods, your sleep, your skin, your sex life. And most of us? We’re blindsided.
Shalena
Jul 94 min read


Elon Musk’s America Party: Political Revolution or Personal Vanity Project?
“By a factor of 2 to 1, you want a new political party and you shall have it! Today, the America Party is formed to give you back your freedom.”
Whew. That’s a big claim from someone who was just cozying up to President Trump less than a year ago. So now we’re all asking the same question:
Is this the start of a real political shakeup… or is Elon Musk just doing what he always does—creating chaos, headlines, and maybe a new logo?
Let’s break this all the way down.
Shalena
Jul 84 min read


Mental Health and Homelessness
Let’s keep it 100...When you see someone sleeping on a sidewalk, talking to themselves, or digging through a trash can just to eat—what’s the first thought that crosses your mind? “They’re lazy”? “They’re on drugs”? “They must’ve done something to end up like that”?
Rarely do we think: “That could’ve been me.”
And most of us think this way... And SHAME ON US—if we’re being honest—We have trained ourselves to look away. Maybe it’s out of guilt. Maybe fear. Maybe we’re jus
Shalena
Jul 76 min read


Donald Trump has officially signed the ‘One Big Beautiful Bill’ into law on Independence Day.
Donald Trump’s latest legislative power play, officially titled the One Big Beautiful Bill Act (OBBBA), just cleared a major hurdle in the S
Shalena
Jul 44 min read


Remembering Julian McMahon: The Charismatic Star Who Captivated Us on ‘Charmed’ and Beyond
It’s with a heavy heart that I share the devastating news that actor Julian McMahon best known for his roles as Dr. Christian Troy in Nip/Tu
Shalena
Jul 42 min read


Mental Health in the Fast Food Industry: Why It Matters
By Shalena Speaks Let’s talk about something that rarely makes headlines but affects millions of workers across America every single day:...
Shalena
Jun 305 min read


#ActiveShooter-Santa Monica, CA - A Santa Monica Police officer was injured in a shooting.
Santa Monica, CA - A Santa Monica Police officer was injured in a shooting near Santa Monica Place mall by the 3rd Street Promenade at around 1:45 p.m. today. The incident reportedly occurred in Parking Structure 7. The suspect, described as a Black male in his 30s wearing a dark jacket and black pants, remains at large, with police actively searching the area. The officer was rushed to a hospital; details on their condition or the nature of the injury are unclear. The mall h
Shalena
Jun 251 min read


The Moment That Would Change The World In A Major Way!?
In recent months, tensions in the Middle East have escalated once again—this time with Iran and Israel at the center of it all. This very moment is when many people think the world is now changed forever. This is when the United States of America got involved. Why, you may ask? Well, it was a couple of reasons actually... Let’s break it down in simple terms.
Shalena
Jun 252 min read


Mental Health Monday: Coping When the World Feels Like It's Burning
If you’ve been feeling heavy lately, you’re not alone. The headlines in 2025 hit differently. From the war escalating between Israel and...
Shalena
Jun 233 min read


This Story Just Keeps Getting Worse: Vance Luther Boelter Case Shocks the Nation
This TRAGIC AND HEARTBREAKING story just keeps getting crazier by the day, it seems. Another day, another gut-wrenching headline. But...
Shalena
Jun 194 min read


Political Hate Hits Home: The Courageous Survival of John and Yvette Hoffman
State Senator John Hoffman and his wife Yvette Hoffman were the targets of a politically motivated assassination attempt at their home in Champlin on the night of June 14, 2025. What was supposed to be a quiet night turned into a terrifying ordeal—and ultimately, a powerful story of survival, love, and unimaginable courage.
Shalena
Jun 173 min read


No Cap says he let go grudges with NBA YoungBoy
Alabama rapper NoCap has publicly declared that he’s moving on from past conflicts with fellow artists NBA YoungBoy and Lil Baby. The announcement, shared via social media platform X, marks a significant moment in the hip-hop community, signaling a potential end to tensions that have simmered between the artists.
Shalena
Jun 152 min read


Tragic Loss in Minnesota: Rep. Melissa Hortman and Husband Killed in Politically Motivated Shooting
Minnesota State Representative Melissa Hortman and her husband, Mark Hortman, were fatally shot in their Brooklyn Park home in what authorities have described as a "politically motivated assassination." The attack, which also left State Senator John Hoffman and his wife Yvette injured in a separate shooting in nearby Champlin, has sent shockwaves through Minnesota and the nation, prompting widespread condemnation and grief.
Shalena
Jun 154 min read
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