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PTSD & Trauma-Related Disorders in Urban Communities: Breaking the Silence
Let's talk numbers for a second, because they're honestly wild. 31% of people living in urban communities have PTSD. That's nearly one in three people walking down your block, riding the same bus, working in the same building as you. To put that in perspective? That's higher than the 17% rate among Iraq war veterans. Read that again. Urban communities are dealing with trauma at rates higher than people who've been in active combat zones. And yet we're still whispering about
Shalena
Jan 106 min read


Anxiety Fatigue: Being Tired From Worrying All the Time
Quick fact: about 1 in 3 adults in the U.S. report anxiety symptoms in a given week - and in many urban zip codes, that stress runs even higher. For Black and Brown communities, the load often feels heavier thanks to rising costs, hustle culture, and the pressure to always be "the strong one." Y'all, can we talk about something real for a minute? That bone-deep exhaustion you feel after your brain has been running marathons all day long - even when your body hasn't moved from
Shalena
Jan 97 min read


Personality Disorders in the City: Misunderstood &Overlooked
Here's the tea that nobody talks about: 1 in 7 people in urban communities are living with some form of personality disorder, yet most of us have never heard anyone openly discuss it. Let's be real – when someone mentions "personality disorder," most people either don't know what that means or they picture the worst stereotypes from movies and TV. But the reality? Your coworker who struggles with relationships, your cousin who can't handle criticism, that friend who seems to
Shalena
Jan 85 min read


OCD Is& Isn't Always What You Think: Urban Realities & Hope
Let's be real about something that gets misunderstood way too often. When people hear "OCD," most think of someone who's obsessed with cleaning or organizing their closet by color. Maybe they picture that one friend who always straightens picture frames or wipes down counters twice. But here's the tea: that's not what OCD actually looks like for most people living with it. Especially in our communities, where mental health already gets swept under the rug, OCD is one of those
Shalena
Jan 85 min read


Personality Disorders in the City: Misunderstood & Overlooked
Think of personality disorders as patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving that are pretty different from what society expects – and these patterns cause real problems in someone's daily life.
We're not talking about quirks or being "difficult." We're talking about deep, consistent patterns that make it hard to:
Shalena
Jan 85 min read


Schizophrenia &; Psychotic Disorders: Not Just a Headline: Urban Realities
Let's be real about something most people don't want to talk about.
When you hear "schizophrenia" or "psychotic disorder," what comes to mind? Probably some Hollywood movie villain or a scary news story, right?
Here's the tea: that's not what living with these conditions actually looks like for most people in our communities.
If you're in an urban area: especially if you're Black or Brown: you're statistically more likely to deal with psychotic symptoms at some point. Not
Shalena
Jan 85 min read


Urban Wellness in Living Color: Fresh Food Markets That Change Lives
Let's be real: when you think about urban wellness, your mind probably goes straight to expensive gym memberships and boutique smoothie bars. But what if I told you that some of the most powerful wellness transformations are happening in the most unexpected places? I'm talking about fresh food markets that are literally changing lives, one colorful vegetable at a time.
Shalena
Dec 17, 20255 min read


The 12 Main Types of Mental Health Conditions: An Urban Culture Guide
Let's be real, mental health conversations are finally happening everywhere, from your favorite podcasts to TikTok threads. But with all the information floating around, it can be overwhelming to understand what's what. Whether you're trying to understand your own experiences, support someone you love, or just get educated, having a clear breakdown of mental health conditions is essential.
Shalena
Dec 17, 20255 min read


Exposing the Real Impact of Cyberbullying: Urban Communities, Mental Health, and the Alarming Stats
Let's be real - cyberbullying isn't just some "kids being kids" situation anymore. We're talking about a full-blown crisis that's literally destroying lives, and it's hitting our urban communities the hardest. The numbers are scary, the mental health impacts are devastating, and honestly? It's time we had this uncomfortable conversation.
Shalena
Dec 17, 20255 min read


Why Mental Health Struggles Are Skyrocketing: This Economy Is Part of the Problem
Let's be real: if you've been feeling like your mental health has been on a roller coaster lately, you're definitely not alone. Here's some tea that might help explain what's going on: nearly one in 10 U.S. adults reported experiencing a mental health crisis in the past year. That's almost 9% of us out here struggling, and that number has been climbing faster than gas prices.
Shalena
Dec 17, 20255 min read


Stop Wasting Time on Fake Wellness Trends: Try These 7 Quick Mental Health Hacks That Actually Work
Let's be real – the wellness industry is full of expensive nonsense. Crystal healing sessions that cost more than your rent? Detox teas that promise to fix your entire life? Manifestation journals priced like luxury handbags? Bestie, we need to talk.
Shalena
Dec 17, 20255 min read


Promoting Mental Health Awareness Effectively
Mental health is a vital part of overall well-being, yet it often remains overlooked or misunderstood. Promoting mental health effectively requires thoughtful strategies that engage communities, reduce stigma, and provide accessible resources. This article explores practical approaches to mental health promotion, offering actionable recommendations to foster a supportive environment for everyone.
Shalena
Oct 20, 20254 min read


World Mental Health Day 2025: The Truth About Healing When the World Is Still Hurting
Every October 10th, the world pauses for World Mental Health Day. You’ll see the green ribbons, the hashtags, and those perfectly filtered “take care of yourself” posts. Everyone suddenly becomes an advocate for a day — and then the next morning, the internet moves on.
But what happens to the people who can’t move on? The ones still sitting in silence, scrolling through motivational quotes while fighting tears they can’t explain?
Let’s be real: we’ve reached a point whe
Shalena
Oct 10, 20258 min read


MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES -DC
In Washington, D.C., a wide range of mental health resources are available to residents, from immediate crisis support to long-term therapy and specialized care. The DC Department of Behavioral Health (DBH) is the central hub for many of these services, which are often provided through a network of community-based organizations. Many of these resources offer low-cost or sliding-scale options, making care more accessible.
Shalena
Sep 21, 20253 min read


Exploring the Darker Side of Social Media Influence
We live in a time where an “influencer” can change your mind faster than your mama or your pastor ever could. One post, one TikTok, one viral video—and suddenly you’re buying a $70 face cream, voting differently, or feeling like your life is trash compared to someone else’s highlight reel.
Shalena
Sep 15, 20256 min read


Mental Health Monday: Can We Really Trust AI With Our Mental Health?
Sooo, let’s talk. We live in a world where your therapist might be… a chatbot. Yep, in 2025, more and more people are turning to artificial intelligence to vent, journal, or even ask for “therapy-like” advice. It’s cheap, it’s 24/7, and it never judges or so people think.
But here’s the tea: experts are warning us that AI isn’t built to handle the heavy stuff. And if you’ve seen the latest headlines, you know this isn’t just a tech story it’s a mental health crisis waiting
Shalena
Sep 8, 20255 min read


Accessing the Right Mental Health Resources for You
Finding the right mental health support services can feel overwhelming. There are many options available, and knowing where to start is...
Shalena
Aug 26, 20254 min read


Mental Health Monday-Give Yourself Grace❤
Let’s be honest… some Mondays hit harder than others. And if you're anything like me, you probably woke up today feeling like the world expects you to be “on,” productive, grateful, energized, and positive—all before your first sip of coffee.
Mental Health Monday-When You’re Tired, Forgetful, and Just Trying to Keep It Together
Shalena
Aug 4, 20253 min read


Strategies for Mental Health Wellness
I know you may not want to hear this, but maintaining mental health balance is more crucial than ever. The demands of everyday life can take a toll on our well-being, causing stress, anxiety, and even depression. Check out these effective strategies to enhance your mental health, ensuring that you lead a balanced, fulfilling life.
Shalena
Jul 27, 20254 min read


Redefining Wellness: From Perfection to Feel-Good Habits
For years, wellness was tied to appearances: sculpted abs, spotless skin, glowing green juices in filtered light. But in 2025, the script is flipping. The new wellness isn’t about perfection. It’s about feeling good—mentally, physically, and emotionally.
And here’s the thing: it’s not just a vibe—it’s a measurable shift.
Today, people are waking up to a new truth: real wellness isn’t about how you look. It’s about how you feel—mentally, physically, emotionally, and energe
Shalena
Jul 10, 20253 min read
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